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Working Hard & Playing Hard
I
often look back fondly upon my four years at Columbia University, those years
when my heart was filled with youthful passion. Besides computers, I was also
passionate about bridge.
After
getting tired of video games in my freshman year, I spent almost all my leisure
time playing bridge, which I had learned to play pretty well in high school. I
knew the American Contract Bridge League (ACBL) would recognize those who had
earned 300 points from bridge games as Life Masters, so I made attaining that
status my goal.
Based
on the ACBL rules, winning a game in a bridge club would only result in 0.3
point. That meant I had to win 1,000 games in the shortest time possible.
To
that end, I played about six bridge games a week. In order to win, I went to
some bridge clubs located in senior centers to play with grandpas and grandmas
who didn’t know the game as well as I did. But later I realized that kind of
winning didn’t really mean much. I began to seek challenges in competitions.
Sometimes
my bridge partners and I took the train to Harvard or Yale for inter-college
bridge competitions. We won the Ivy League championship.
I
accumulated enough points to become a Life Master at the end of my junior year.
One
of my bridge partners, Alex Ornstein, later became a professional player. He won the second place in the Bermuda Bowl,
the “World Cup” of bridge. He was able to make good money and played bridge
every day. It looked somewhat enviable to me that he was making a career out of
his hobby. When I mentioned it to another friend, he said with a smile,
“Kai-Fu, hadn’t you chosen the computers, you could be a professional bridge
player, too!”
Although
I’ve never had a bridge-related job, what I’ve learned from bridge is helpful
to my career. Thanks to bridge, I know how to read people’s faces and predict
their next moves. These skills are essential in business negotiations.
Drawing
from my own experience, I often tell college students that extracurricular
activities can do them a lot of good, and that studying is not everything. I
also encourage them to get jobs or internships in the summer.
I
worked two of the three summers in my college years. The first summer I
obtained a great opportunity to work for the Law School of Columbia University.
The dean of the Law School wanted to move a software system from an IBM
mainframe to a lower-priced DEC VAX, but all the price quotes from contractors
looked too high to him, so he gave the job to me based on my reputation in the
university’s computer center, of which he had heard.
He
offered me $7 per hour, which was a high wage to me. I was excited. When he
asked me how soon I could deliver initial results, I said confidently, “I can
make the program run in early August so we’ll have time to adjust it before
school starts.”
“That
sounds great!” The dean looked very happy.
He
believed in my promise, which I thought I could easily keep, too. But just
because I considered it a piece of cake, I didn’t start it from the beginning
of the summer break. I obsessively played three weeks of bridge in July. Then I
recalled my promise to the dean and picked up the task, which unfortunately
turned out to be a lot more time-consuming than I had thought. August soon
arrived. I had no choice but to try explaining to the dean, “This job is more
complicated than I thought, so the program won’t run until late August. But
it’ll still be done before school starts.”
I
expected the dean to accept my excuse and let me continue with the project. But
he didn’t. He appeared angry and said in a serious tone, “Since you can’t
finish it on time, I’ll get someone else to do it.”
Obviously
I had lost his trust. I felt terrible about it. I couldn’t fall asleep that
night and reflected upon myself all night long. The next day I went to the dean
and apologized, “I’m sorry that I disappointed you. I broke my promise, so I’m
here to return the money you’ve paid me.”
“It’s
OK. You can keep the money,” the dean kindly responded. “It’s excusable to make
a mistake when you don’t have much experience. I’m sure you’ve learned a
lesson.”
I
did. Since then I have always kept my promises.
This
work ethic began to win applause for me during my second summer break, in the
beginning of which I went to an interview for a Goldman Sachs internship. To
protect its assets, the bank needed to ensure the intern’s integrity, so it
used a lie detector to conduct interviews.
“Do
you drink?” The interviewer began with a question very easy for me to answer.
“No,”
I replied, feeling certain that the lie detector wouldn’t indicate anything
suspicious.
“Do
you do drugs?”
“No.”
“Have
you embezzled any amount of money?”
“No.”
“Do
you gamble?”
“No.”
“Are
you sure?” The interviewer asked again. “How come your heart is beating faster?”
The
lie detector! It did pick up my quicker heartbeat while I was wondering whether
bridge should count as gambling. Occasionally, we’d play for money, but it was
never more than $20 in one evening.
“Why
is your heart beating so fast?” The interviewer started interrogating me. “Do
you lose money over gambling? How much do you lose every week? A thousand? Five
hundred?”
He
sounded more and more serious. I was afraid he already mistook me for a
gambler. Would I lose this wonderful internship just because of playing bridge?
I felt frustrated, but I didn’t give up. I made an effort to explain my love
for bridge to him, and fortunately, the misunderstanding was soon cleared.
The
interviewer smiled and said, “Don’t worry. You did fine. You scored a lot higher
than most of the interns we’ve accepted.”
I
will never forget the two summer jobs I did in college. Before I entered the
real job market, they showed me what qualities of me would be in demand, how
the world would view me and how I could adjust myself to fit in better.
Nowadays,
whenever a college student asks me how to make the best use of a summer break,
I always say, “Get a job! Find an internship! Do something that will prepare
you for the real world!”
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